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Hi, Happy Lover!

I’m Tara Blair Ball, a Relationship Coach & Writer.

I’ve had plenty of shitty relationships and so have my clients. It’s now my mission to help you have baller ones (see my pun there?).

To help you do that, I write here on Medium as well as on Mamamia, The Good Men Project, Thought Catalog, and others found here.

To further help you, I also have:

Some deets about me: I’m married to baller Mr. Ball and get to parent the 4 best kiddos (one’s even brand new!). I smile all the ever-loving time and would gladly eat pizza every day of my life. …

Feeling supported and encouraged in your romantic relationship can help you reach your goals.

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“The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you’re with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” — Nishan Panwar

I walked into the living room, my high heels clicking loudly on the hardwood. My husband sat on the couch wearing his pajamas, a PlayStation controller in his hand.

“I’m leaving,” I told him. “You sure you don’t want to come?”

He glanced up at me. “Yeah.”

I adjusted a bracelet on my wrist. “Okay. I’ll be home around 10 or so.”

He’d already turned back to the TV screen, but he nodded to show that he’d heard me. …

I cut contact with them years ago because I refuse to have unhealthy people in my or my children’s lives.

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Readers please note: this story includes a description of childhood abuse. If you need information or help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

My daughter was born on October 22nd, 2020 at 12:40pm. That photo above is of her. You are seeing my baby before my own parents ever will.

Even if I hadn’t had this baby in the time of Covid, no one would have been hanging out in the waiting room to see her. …


tara blair ball

Relationship Coach & Writer. Contact me @ tarablairball@gmail.com, or check out my books, course, & other work at tarablairball.com.

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