As a relationship coach and in my own experience, having that conversation never led to any real change, so I always caution people to have NO expectations when having those conversations.

People who have those kinds of toxic behaviors are usually hard-wired to keep at them until they are ready to change, so a talk or even a break-up may not push them that way.

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