First off, you’re harsh and ridiculous for assuming a lot about a relationship you weren’t a part of. He didn’t “slip.” He hid active drug abuse for eight years, as I clearly stated. I can also forgive — and have — but choose not to stay married to someone. He made his choices, and I chose not to remain with someone who’d betrayed me multiple times, even after he’d been caught. Forgiveness doesn’t mean continuing to have someone in my life.