I definitely felt that at times in the beginning, but my partner is also good at reassuring me in other ways, like putting his hand on my back when we are near one another. That puts it in perspective for me, just being reminded that this is temporary and not seeing her as a “wedge” between us. Their relationship is independent of ours, but we are building toward a more interdependent one. Thanks for the question!!

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