I get that. I wrote this rather satirically since I was obviously super shallow at the time this all happened. As I’ve written elsewhere, such as here, the human heart is very forgiving. When we match up intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, that will more than make up for someone’s imperfections. I focused too much on Simon’s looks, but in reality (and as I write about here too), he had a lot of nasty qualities that weren’t just his looks.