I mean, that sucks, right? Just how it is for the most part. A lady who likes you will give you the benefit of the doubt, forgive your mistakes, etc., but that’s if she likes you. The date could be perfect and if she’s not into you, she’s not into you. In the dating world, single attractive women often seem like they’re in short supply, so they have a LOT more options than the guys going after her. Means they get to be much more selective.