i thought my mom was a good grandmother. i let her babysit. it all seemed like she had changed. too late, it came out that the same rage and pain lurked within her, and my children were affected in ways i didn’t discover until years later.all i can say is be very careful151Laura lakeTara Blair BallNov 28, 2019·1 min readI stopped having any contact with my mother in 2018, so no worries! I was too worried about her with them after a while. My ex though still allows her to see them, but I simply can’t control that.