I think you got it with the post hoc realization. I think we so often just follow the status quo and it isn’t until we or our partner are faced with the opportunity to cheat and follow through it that we realize that we’d been denying or avoiding some important things about our relationship. And then there’s a lot of backpedaling to figure out WHY.

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