I‘ve been told that many times actually: how the grief will keep coming back. I’ve found being in a new relationship that it comes back in more insidious ways, like in comparing or thinking I can “predict” a particular reaction because of how it was in my marriage. I also get people not liking the new me! That part has sucked, but I’d much rather be happy, and I know you must feel the same way. All the best to you as well!!! Thank you for commenting.