Oh, I totally could, and I did. I NEVER would have called it an affair. I mean, I’d already filed, he deserved it, blah blah blah, but the fact that he thought we were working on reconciling and my current partner was horrified really put it in a different light for me. Beyond that, legally in the state of Tennessee, if you date AT ALL before the divorce is final, it’s considered adultery. 🤷♀️ Regardless, thanks for reading!!