Since I’m writing this from the perspective of my male coaching clients, I’ll tell you that the caliber of men that my clients are are better than the “most” men you’re speaking of. Many women today aren’t looking or even needing a “provider.” They’re looking for a partner or a teammate, and some guy wanting a dependent little waif won’t get far with them.

Higher quality men want partners too, which means they’re attracted to independence. Low quality men, on the other hand, still want the kind of relationships their parents and grandparents had and aren’t looking to modernize.

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