So, I’ll say that I tentatively agree. The other person does have to take responsibility for their part. But, I say tentatively because in my situation, I didn’t necessarily voice what I needed. I sort of just expected my partner to read my mind when I could have just said, “hey, I need you to handle your shit while I tell you this stuff” and give him the opportunity to do just that. Regardless, thanks for reading and commenting!

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