Thank you!! But, to be fair, all babies are difficult, and I have some friends with just one baby that is more difficult than my two.
My experience on Tinder was not without its norms. I definitely talked with and even met dudes only interested in one thing, but no guy was ever mean to me per se in the beginning (a few were after I rejected them). But I really just needed the affirmation they provided me. It seems so silly and minor now, but any compliments were helpful when my self-esteem was so devastated. May may work or be necessary for everyone, but it worked that way for me.