That’s actually an example of “negging,” and NOT proper flirting. It’s an example of what not to do, and that’s actually a comment a man once made to me totally thinking that it’d work because he was telling me something negative about myself but that HE liked it (it didn’t work, and it wouldn’t on any woman with self-esteem). Jerks neg.

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