The original article was problematic, I totally agree. I said a couple of things with the intention of meaning something else, but clearly it was only taken another way (like when I said A relationship, I actually meant ANY). That's my fault for rushing, and your complaints are valid.
I do want to point out that this article isn't directed at all single women. It's actually directed at both men and women who fit a very specific type. There isn't only one type of single man or woman, and this never sought to speak to all of them.
I've since updated the article with the help of some other readers and hopefully it clarifies it more. If not, I'll just delete it because the last thing in the world I want is a bunch of women seeing me as women-hating when that couldn't be further from the truth.