The sad thing is that for years I put in a lot of work only to discover my husband had been secretly abusing drugs for our entire marriage and had embezzled from his job. That’s what my memoir is about really. The discovery and betrayal after betrayal to my own betrayal. I’m not proud of what I did, and I did use Simon. There are plenty of better ways to end a relationship; this is just the way I chose. I am glad to be out of that relationship today.