You’re assuming that sitting around and waiting for men to come to me was easy. It wasn’t. What would have been a hell of a lot easier was just crossing the room and talking to a guy, which I was very comfortable doing. The thing is it’s always about getting outside of your comfort zone. For me to sit and wait was outside mine. For the dudes I’m particularly advising, approaching a woman is likely outside theirs too.

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